danny 2009-4-24 15:49
面對衝突的絕招
[align=left][color=#ffffff][size=3][color=#0000ff]有線電視的[/color][color=#0800ff]普及，讓愛[/color][color=#1000ff]看影集的觀眾[/color][color=#1800ff]，也多[/color][color=#2100ff]了一個殺時間[/color][color=#2900ff]的管道，多[/color][color=#3100ff]種時段的[/color][color=#3900ff]收視選擇，[/color][color=#4200ff]讓影集迷不用[/color][color=#4a00ff]再忍受見好[/color][color=#5200ff]不收的連[/color][color=#5a00ff]續劇。以下[/color][color=#6300ff]四種熱門影集[/color][color=#6b00ff]類型，[/color][color=#7300ff]那種最能吸引[/color][color=#7b00ff]你的視線和[/color][color=#8400ff]心情停駐呢[/color][color=#8c00ff]？[/color]
[color=#0000ff]A法律或醫[/color][color=#0800ff]學類[/color]
[color=#0000ff]B爆笑喜劇[/color][color=#0800ff]類[/color]
[color=#0000ff]C都會愛情[/color][color=#0800ff]類[/color]
[color=#0000ff]D懸疑推理[/color][color=#0800ff]類[/color]
[/size][/color][color=#ffffff][size=3][color=#0000ff]選擇A的人
會選擇法律[/color][color=#0800ff]或醫學類影[/color][color=#1000ff]集的人，基本[/color][color=#1800ff]上嚴以[/color][color=#2100ff]律己也律他人[/color][color=#2900ff]，對人和自[/color][color=#3100ff]己的要求[/color][color=#3900ff]都高，會使[/color][color=#4200ff]和他〈她〉相[/color][color=#4a00ff]處的人，心[/color][color=#5200ff]裡壓力龐[/color][color=#5a00ff]大，和別人[/color][color=#6300ff]的衝突火花時[/color][color=#6b00ff]有交會[/color][color=#7300ff]，旁觀者覺得[/color][color=#7b00ff]頗為嚇人，[/color][color=#8400ff]其實他〈她[/color][color=#8c00ff]〉是屬於刀子[/color][color=#9400ff]嘴豆腐[/color][color=#9c00ff]心的人，有理[/color][color=#a500ff]時以理溝通[/color][color=#ad00ff]最有效，不然[/color][color=#b500ff]就用上[/color][color=#bd00ff]軟功坦然認錯[/color][color=#c600ff]，再大的事[/color][color=#ce00ff]情也會變成小[/color][color=#d600ff]事囉。[/color][/size][/color][/align]
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[color=#ffffff][size=3][color=#0000ff]選擇B的人
在現實社會[/color][color=#0800ff]裡，這類人[/color][color=#1000ff]常會被他人欺[/color][color=#1800ff]侮，在[/color][color=#2100ff]衝突時，容易[/color][color=#2900ff]被仗勢欺人[/color][color=#3100ff]的傢伙壓[/color][color=#3900ff]迫，而總是[/color][color=#4200ff]屈居下風。不[/color][color=#4a00ff]過難能可貴[/color][color=#5200ff]的是，雖[/color][color=#5a00ff]然被利用的[/color][color=#6300ff]感受不好，他[/color][color=#6b00ff]〈她〉[/color][color=#7300ff]當時氣歸氣，[/color][color=#7b00ff]不一會兒就[/color][color=#8400ff]是能夠淡忘[/color][color=#8c00ff]掉，並不會影[/color][color=#9400ff]響他〈[/color][color=#9c00ff]她〉對人類的[/color][color=#a500ff]信任感。這[/color][color=#ad00ff]種寬容大度的[/color][color=#b500ff]態度，[/color][color=#bd00ff]使其他人鼓掌[/color][color=#c600ff]讚佩，但該[/color][color=#ce00ff]力爭的時刻，[/color][color=#d600ff]還是建議要[/color][color=#de00ff]開口爭取呢[/color][color=#e700ff]。[/color][/size][/color][/align]
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[color=#ffffff][size=3][color=#0000ff]選擇C的人
這類人平常[/color][color=#0800ff]也頗為好相[/color][color=#1000ff]處，有好好先[/color][color=#1800ff]生或小[/color][color=#2100ff]姐的稱號，一[/color][color=#2900ff]旦發生衝突[/color][color=#3100ff]，就搖身[/color][color=#3900ff]一變成為刺[/color][color=#4200ff]蝟，要挑起戰[/color][color=#4a00ff]端的對方付[/color][color=#5200ff]出代價。[/color][color=#5a00ff]這種變身行[/color][color=#6300ff]為不太能讓旁[/color][color=#6b00ff]人理解[/color][color=#7300ff]，因為有時小[/color][color=#7b00ff]事，竟也能[/color][color=#8400ff]炮火隆隆，[/color][color=#8c00ff]其實最大的衝[/color][color=#9400ff]突來源[/color][color=#9c00ff]，是來自他〈[/color][color=#a500ff]她〉的內心[/color][color=#ad00ff]，害怕別人有[/color][color=#b500ff]敵意，[/color][color=#bd00ff]所以反應格外[/color][color=#c600ff]激烈。因此[/color][color=#ce00ff]要和這類人和[/color][color=#d600ff]解，最好的[/color][color=#de00ff]方法就是表[/color][color=#e700ff]示善意，說話[/color][color=#ef00ff]口氣要[/color][color=#f700ff]留心點，就萬[/color][color=#ff00ff]事ｏｋ。[/color][/size][/color][/align][align=left]
[color=#ffffff][size=3][color=#0000ff]選擇D的人
在衝突發生[/color][color=#0800ff]時，活在自[/color][color=#1000ff]我世界的這類[/color][color=#1800ff]人反應[/color][color=#2100ff]，常會讓其他[/color][color=#2900ff]人為之氣結[/color][color=#3100ff]，裝死是[/color][color=#3900ff]他〈她〉的[/color][color=#4200ff]絕招，看淡世[/color][color=#4a00ff]事人情，也[/color][color=#5200ff]沒興趣爭[/color][color=#5a00ff]來爭去，不[/color][color=#6300ff]想被人影響，[/color][color=#6b00ff]所以東[/color][color=#7300ff]閃西躲衝突炮[/color][color=#7b00ff]火，甚至製[/color][color=#8400ff]造各種煙霧[/color][color=#8c00ff]彈，企圖轉移[/color][color=#9400ff]對方注[/color][color=#9c00ff]意力，這就是[/color][color=#a500ff]他〈她〉面[/color][color=#ad00ff]對衝突時的態[/color][color=#b500ff]度。真[/color][color=#bd00ff]躲不過言語炮[/color][color=#c600ff]火，還有最[/color][color=#ce00ff]後絕技，就是[/color][color=#d600ff]擺低姿態，[/color][color=#de00ff]打不還手罵[/color][color=#e700ff]不還口，讓對[/color][color=#ef00ff]方發洩[/color][color=#f700ff]個夠後，而自[/color][color=#ff00ff]動放棄。[/color][/size] [/color][/align][align=left][color=#ffffff][/color][/align]